How to talk to your family member with Alzheimer's

Reading this article from Dementia Weekly, I am reminded that communication is EVERYTHING in Alzheimer care. Relating well to the person in a calm reassuring way can allay fears. So much of everyday life becomes confusing for them; they need us to tell them simply what is happening, what is expected now (not later, always stay in the present) and that you will keep them safe. Invite them to come with you; don't order them to come. "We're having dinner now. I'd like you to join us. Please come with me." There will be less resistance to care as the article below suggests.

Chicago - Adults with Alzheimer's in nursing homes who are talked to like children are more resistant to care, according to new research reported today at the 2008 Alzheimer's Association International Conference on Alzheimer's Disease (ICAD 2008) in Chicago.

As effective pharmaceutical treatments and prevention for Alzheimer's remain elusive, some researchers are focusing their efforts on improving quality of life and care including communication. One study determined that there is a correlation between how nursing home staff communicates with residents who have dementia and the residents' subsequent resistance to care. Another investigated how families work to maintain normalcy and coherence during dinner time conversation when a family member with Alzheimer's is included.

"The style of communication that we use with people with Alzheimer's influences how they feel about themselves and how well they respond to those providing care," said Sam Fazio, PhD, Director, Medical and Scientific Relations at the Alzheimer's Association. "With the growing prevalence of Alzheimer's, it will be increasingly important for healthcare providers, caregivers and families to understand the effect Alzheimer's has on communication and, perhaps more importantly, the impact their communication may have on the individual's quality of life."